How to fill out a form on a dating site correctly?
According to statistics, every third Internet user is registered on one or more dating sites. At the same time, not everyone succeeds in getting to know each other online. Largely because people do not know what they want, who exactly they want to meet, do not know how to communicate, and also fill out the questionnaire incorrectly. Even such a “trifle” as an incorrectly drawn up profile can make acquaintance on the Internet impossible. What are the main mistakes users make when filling out a questionnaire on dating sites and how you really need to fill out such a questionnaire – information in our material.
Should I fill it up or not?
Many women generally neglect to fill out the questionnaire. Wanting to get to know each other, for some reason they do not consider it necessary to tell anything about themselves, standing in a pose: “Ask me questions, and I will answer.” It won’t work that way. Most users will regard this as a frivolous attitude towards dating and a lack of motivation and will just “pass it by.” Will pass by, even if you have spectacular photos. Experienced users in the absence of personal data may regard them as fake (fake).
What to write about?
Most dating sites don’t have to come up with anything. It is enough to answer the template questions and fill in the sections created by the site administration. Monosyllabic answers equate to their complete absence. It is advisable to answer in detail. In the fields like “About me” it makes sense to tell about your interests, hobbies, so as to recreate a portrait of a person, and men have a certain idea of you and, importantly, have appeared: a reason to start dating and topics for discussion. You can tell about your character, your beliefs, your favorite anecdote. And be sure to tell us which man you would like to meet. Be as honest as possible. If it is important for you that the man does not have children, indicate this. If you want a man to be financially secure, you yourself do not want to work at all, but want to give birth to children and take care of the house – just write. This will be an additional filter for your search. Of course, he will weed out many men, but since they do not fit your requirements, then you do not need them at all.
What not to write about?
Don’t write negative. In no case. Don’t write about your suffering and disappointment. Men come to a dating site not to sympathize with someone or support them morally. They want to meet an attractive and positive woman who is doing well. It is unlikely that anyone will want to meet a sufferer who is disillusioned with life and men. If you want to meet not for online flirting and virtual communication, but for relationships in real life, you should not lie in your profile. Not about your age, or about your equestrianism and vocals, unless you actually do or sing.
In no case should you write text using the Caps Lock key (in capital letters). Text typed in this way looks like a raised tone and is unpleasant to read. The typed text must be checked for grammatical and punctuation errors. Many men will pass by, albeit a pretty, but illiterate young lady. The text should not be longer than a small children’s story, otherwise your efforts will be in vain. Men who want to meet, of course, want to know as much as possible about the girl in the photo, but they are unlikely to be ready to read stories or, even worse, novels.
Article published in Issue 11/17/2014