TOP 10 proven life hacks, how to meet a girl

TOP 10 proven life hacks, how to meet a girl

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Dating girls is hard. Even if in the end everything goes like clockwork, the guy will still be notoriously nervous. However, there are some effective tips that will help to greatly simplify the process and make dating less “painful”.

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  • Be open and confident. Yes, it’s trite, but it works. Use non-verbal “tricks” – open gestures, eye contact, smile. This will endear the interlocutor to you.
  • Offer help. Girls rarely refuse, especially if they have to carry a heavy bag or bag on their own.
  • Pay attention to the little things. How the girl is dressed, what drawings are shown on her clothes, what she carries in her hands. Play on this – you will already have your first topic of conversation ready. And the stranger will be surprised at your insight.
  • Ask for advice. Another commonplace recommendation that works flawlessly. Wherever you are, whether it is a queue in a supermarket or a housing office – contact the girl you like with the question “how to get through”, “what is better to buy”, etc. Be brave!
  • Contact “you”. You should not be familiar and disrespectful from the very first words. Believe me, the girl will appreciate such a gesture.
  • Give a compliment. Girls love with their ears, and that’s a fact. Just don’t be trivial – besides laughter or rolled eyes, you don’t have to wait for another reaction. Show your imagination!
  • Don’t disturb your personal space. You should not try to hug the girl, touch her, even if you do this with the aim of shaking off the stranger’s coat, to which something is attached. Do not cross the line of acceptable intimacy if you have not received permission to do so.
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  • Do not be distructed. Situations are not uncommon when, while meeting a girl, a guy thinks about something of his own, as a result of which he loses the thread of the conversation and looks lost. The probability of continuing communication in this case tends to zero.
  • Refer to the girl by name. Be sure to ask her name, and by no means forget! During a conversation, call your companion solely by name – no “kitties”, “zai” and the like.
  • Be yourself. No need to portray a pick-up artist or a ladies’ man. You should not speak in pre-prepared templates.

And if suddenly all this did not help, and the girl still refused to meet – do not despair! This is definitely not a reason to “drop” your self-esteem and become a monk.

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TOP of the best places to date with the girl of your dreams

TOP of the best places to date with the girl of your dreams

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The very word “date” implies something very romantic. It is very difficult to surprise modern girls: we live in a world of great opportunities, even in small towns various exhibitions, concerts and events are regularly held.

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Moreover, the demands of the opposite sex to each other are also growing by leaps and bounds – and finding themselves alone, two young people are embarrassed and can, at best, sit on a bench in a park or some dull coffee shop. So where do you go on a date so that both are fun and interesting?

You should always have a backup plan. Better yet, two. Life is unpredictable and can make its own adjustments – bad weather, a restaurant that is suddenly closed, or whatever. Be ready for anything and do not take a change in plans as the end of the world.

Be sure to think about how much money you are willing to spend. If this is the first date, it is better not to spend it in an expensive restaurant if you cannot afford it – as a result, you can set a bar for the girl that you will not pull in the future. And in this way it will be possible to immediately weed out a lady pursuing mercantile goals.

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  • If you are more specific about the choice of places for dates, it is better to start this list with a walk in the fresh air. Comfortable, practical and natural – you will be in a neutral environment and will be able to be yourself. Choose a beautiful park, square or embankment for a walk, where dozens of the same couples in love will walk. Your companion will feel confident and at ease, and you can chat about any topic, have a good time, eat ice cream or have a cup of delicious coffee.
  • Going to the ice rink or rollerblading in the park is a great option. Even if the girl has never skated, you can teach her and act as a real hero. If you also don’t know how to skate – well, there will be an opportunity to learn together, and she will not feel so inept next to you.
  • There is no girl who doesn’t like animals. She may like seals, birds, fish, snakes or even spiders, but it never hurts to look at the animals and diversify her horizons. Therefore, a zoo or animal show is a great choice. Psychologists say that a person’s attitude to animals largely determines his character and temperament in life. You will have a great opportunity not only to have a good time with your companion, but also to get to know her better.
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  • Walking on the water is a great pastime even if you are only having a first date with her. Fresh breeze, beautiful landscapes, romantic atmosphere … And until the end of the trip she will definitely not run away from you. The option is not relevant if there are no reservoirs in your city. Then you can replace the ferry ride with a horse ride or, at worst, go to the movies.
  • If you are an active person and cannot sit still, bowling is a great option for a date. Loud music, bright lights, fun entertainment – what could be better if you want to have fun with your lady? Even if you both don’t know how to play, it makes absolutely no difference, because you don’t need any special skills in order to knock down the pins with a ball. Just do not try to pretend to be a super professional and knock out a strike every time – the girl may be offended and quite rightly consider you a narcissist. Move the excitement of gambling to the background and enjoy the company of a beautiful girl.
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  • If you are going on a date with a girl who loves noisy companies and parties, take her to a bar. Dancing, dim lights, a cheerful atmosphere, a huge cocktail list – most likely, both of you are not shy at all and will have fun with all the heart.
  • Perhaps the most romantic option you can think of is a rooftop date. A surprise played in dozens of films will impress any girl. It is not necessary to have a whole feast – a bottle of champagne and a light snack will be enough. You can do without alcohol at all, so that the girl does not think that you want to drink her. To avoid unpleasant situations, you should just ask her how she feels about a glass of champagne on a date?
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The most important thing on a date with a girl is to be yourself. Don’t try to sound like someone you are not. Well, do not forget to put yourself in order – it is not necessary to wear a tuxedo, just clean ironed clothes and a neat appearance will do. Your beloved will definitely appreciate all the efforts made to organize a romantic date.

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    in short there are guys who bother and those who do not give a shit, and where can you find the first? Could you tell??

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    I piss to invite you on a date, because I’m afraid she will ask – where will we go and I’m such mmmm bbbbb mmmmm I’ll be like an idioto> __

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    but how to find out in advance without spoilers, she may be allergic to flowers or animal hair, or suddenly she is afraid of water … it’s easier to invite someone you know a little more on dates, but it’s sooooo difficult to navigate with a girl you don’t know !!!!! ( (

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    so maybe when you come there will be three ahahahahahaha x))))

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    I don’t know, guys are not very smart, I still have several offers from different boys and all as one invited to “see a movie at their house ” xD

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    I think bowling is not suitable for everyone, but you can try to teach a girl to play if she doesn’t know how! there will be a reason to put your arms around her waist or take her by the hand!

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    I was on a heap of successful and unsuccessful dates and I liked it when they came on a date first, with gifts and flowers) I liked it when they brought me to the amusement park, took a ride on a boat, on a horse) this is something that does not happen every day)

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    ohh, that’s nothing, I met on the Internet with a guy who said on a date that he left his wallet at home and I paid myself, of course there was no second date after that LOL

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    pfff I do not care where they invite, and most importantly, that the guy pays for everything, otherwise there were unique people who offered in half xD xD xD

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    I got a very sensitive girl, so I’m not sure if I can take her out to some crowded place, probably the roof will be the ideal option;););)

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    the main thing is to make a few chips on the date so that it will be remembered, so no matter where it is, it is important for me to see that the guy tried and tried to do something special = ^. ^ =

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    I like the idea of ​​bowling, I like the fighting girl, so if she agrees to go on a date with such a loser like me, then you need to think about a very active vacation !!!

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    maybe a cafe is trivial, but a classic, why not =) you just need to choose a cafe away from the place where you both live, so that it is more romantic and not afraid to meet friends or exes, which has already happened a couple of times in my life ..

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    I don’t know what to choose for the very first date, I’m immensely happy because the girl, whom I courted for a very long time, finally drew attention to me, but I don’t know when and where to call, she has nails, so probably there’s no bowling alley, I don’t know where the roofs are open, but we don’t have a zoo in our city …

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TOP – 5 myths about dating on the Internet

TOP – 5 myths about dating on the Internet

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Virtual dating is clearly a buzzword today. Just the popularity of dating applications – such services are installed in their smartphones even by representatives of young people, for whom, it would seem, there are simpler ways to find a soul mate. But the fact remains – new technologies are taking over even the dating sphere. And in this regard, several myths have developed around online dating. Today we will dispel the most common ones.

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  • Dating sites are for aged losers. A very silly prejudice. According to statistics, the average age of users of such sites is from 18 to 35 years old. Yes, there are people who are older, but their percentage is much lower.
  • Dating on the Internet has no prospects, it’s just entertainment. In fact, today a third of all couples are dating online. Every fifth couple of newlyweds registering a marriage found each other on the Internet. And this number is growing inexorably from year to year. Of course, dating sites are full of people who are not in the mood for real communication, and there is no getting around it. But there are much more of those who are really looking for a soul mate.
  • Only women sit on dating sites. We hasten to upset you – according to statistics, there are 2-3% more men on such sites than women. If we consider on average, then the representatives of different sexes are approximately equal. However, on different sites, things are different – on some there is a direct outright preponderance towards men.
  • On dating sites, there are only maniacs, criminals, liars and schemers. According to statistics, 10% of the registered profiles belong to scammers – there is no getting away from this. But there is an effective way to deal with them – a blacklist. One way or another, almost every person is faced with inadequacies in the vastness of the network. They just need to be understood, accepted and blocked.
  • You can’t find a person for a serious relationship on the Internet – they get to know each other only for fleeting connections. And this is also an absolute lie. Everyone sets their own goals. Of course, there are a lot of those who are not interested in marriage and children, but they often talk about it themselves. Others are quite interested in finding a love partner.

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TOP – 10 interesting facts about online dating

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Technology does not stand still. Today we have access to something that a couple of decades ago we could not even dream of. This also applies to acquaintances – every year they are increasingly moving into the virtual space. Good or bad – it’s definitely not for us to judge. Here are some interesting facts about online dating that you probably didn’t know about.

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  • 80% of dating site users lie about themselves. Most often, deception concerns height, weight, age, financial situation. The tendency, frankly, is so-so – during a personal meeting, everything will fall into place anyway.
  • 39% of women are afraid that on a dating site they might meet a serial maniac. In fact, the probability of this is extremely small – the chance that a bag of money will fall on your head is much higher.
  • Every tenth user of a dating site is a scammer. Everyone has a chance to communicate with him, and it is quite real.
  • Only 32% of online dating ends with a real meeting. All the rest of the communication remains in the virtual plane – there are many reasons for this.
  • According to statistics, men, when meeting on the Internet, pay attention to what is written in the questionnaire of a potential partner. In turn, girls mainly look at men’s photos.
  • For 32% of users of dating sites, a well-filled profile is a key factor in dating. Therefore, do not be lazy, filling out your profile, and google words that cause you doubts.
  • 80% of users of dating sites are people between the ages of 18 and 35. This will greatly surprise those who are convinced that virtual dating is for age losers.
  • 44% of people registered on dating sites have children.
  • 18% of people who have profiles on dating sites are married or in a relationship. They are among those who do not go on dates – people just communicate, while experiencing a certain moral pleasure.
  • 46% of dating site users ask their friends how best to fill out a profile. It is noteworthy that even 10 years ago, a profile in a dating service was something shameful. Today this is the norm, which cannot but rejoice.

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